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Do you desire to take your relationship to a new level of passion, respect and joy?  Are you wanting new perspectives and new tools to help you and your partner break free of old tired habits and live more harmoniously?  Are you ready to experience the full loving potential of your relationship?  If so, then you have come to the right place. 

Hello, we are Ruthanne and Louis Carosio and we are the developers of "Pathways to Radiant Loving".  We offer couples counseling and retreats in Eugene Oregon that help couples live with harmony, joy and Spirit.  We know the benefit of living in conscious, thriving relationship because our journey of the past 24 years has been to live that with each other.  Our work has grown from our experience, both personal and professional and we love sharing the principles and practices that have made a profound differences in our lives.  We know they work!

More about who we are.

We all know that relationship is both our deepest longing and sometimes our biggest challenge as humans.  When you met your partner or spouse and fell in love, did you hope that would carry you through the rest of your life?  Love is enough, right?  You may have come to find, however, that though love has carried you a long way, your relationship requires work. It requires tending, time and tools.

Those we love most dearly can often be the ones who challenge us the most.  You may want to do the work of relationship but you don't know how. In the face of difficulty or conflict you find yourselves coming back to the same old issues and rehearsing the same old lines.

Or, you know you feel very deeply for your partner, but find it difficult to devote the time in your busy life to make a practice of staying connected and enjoying one another.  Life just takes over. 

You are not alone.  You are not less successful in relationship.  All relationships require our time, attention, some tending and practices to keep them happy.

Your longing is there.  To know how to love better.  To know how be present and connected to one another.  To know how to stay the course and really attain the longevity you had wanted when you first fell in love. All of this is possible.

This is what we know.

The choice to be in relationship is a deeply spiritual one. When we view our relationships through this lens we come to see that our partners offer us the perfect mirror for the growth of our Self.  We are drawn to our partners or spouses precisely because they are the perfect person to help us grow and develop as humans.  That's right, the very one that is sitting across from you at breakfast.

Core to our work are five simple, yet powerful concepts.

1. Presence, and an open heart are key to lasting love.

Within these 5 core concepts we have developed the Seven Principles of Radiant Loving which gives couples simple principles to live by and practice, creating better and more harmonious relating.  We have also developd the Radiant Loving Process, which effectively helps couples to withdraw blame, take responsibility for themselves and come to a more loving and compassionate relationship.  What could be better than that?

We love this work and feel proud of the teachings and processes we have developed.  It is our great joy to lead couples through retreats and classes and to witness the open hearts and joyful connection that occurs.  Couples consistently report that our work impacts their relationship in a powerful and positive way.  It is our deepest privilege to facilitate this change.

Central to our work is also an attitude of fun and play because although relationships can feel very serious, we believe we can do the work of relationship and still have a good time.  Laughter and joy are sacred elements of our presentations and processes.

"I have known and worked with Louis and Ruthanne for a year and I have listened to them share their heart and soul and passion for the work they do of bringing people deeper into connectivity, not just with each other and in relationship but with Source energy and bringing Source energy into relationship.  They do a great job of teaching people how to create heaven in their relationship.  You owe it to yourself to give yourself the answers, skills and tools and most importantly to learn from people who demonstrate in a very real and authentic way what it means to have a radiant, soul based, heart based relationship.  Ruthanne and Louis really walk their talk.  I get excited when I think about the work they are doing and the effect they are having on people and couples around the world".
Karen Curry
Family and Prosperity Coach
The Prosperity Revolution

"The way Ruthanne and Louis view relationship as a spiritual path is of paramount importance to us.   We have reached the stage of life where our respective personal, and the relationship’s spiritual journey are everything. This underlying philosophy is what makes Ruthanne and Louis so different.  We are so indebted to you both.  You have changed and are changing our lives.  You have helped us and continue to help us create a relationship that is loving, caring and most of all – honest."
Walter and Vivienne Close

We invite you to make your relationship a priority and make an appointment for a private couples session. Or, join us for our next retreat.
We know you will be glad you did!

Peace, Love and Joy,

Ruthanne and Louis Carosio

Pathways to Radiant Loving • 474 Willamette, Suite 302 • Eugene, OR 97401

Counseling and Retreats for Couples in Eugene, Oregon